Silariang: A Family Reconciliation Process on the Case of Elopment in The Island of Rajuni

Abstract

This study aims to describe the communication process of Ma'deceng on the elopement of both parties between intercultural families. This study used a qualitative approach with descriptive research types. Data obtained through in-depth interview techniques using the analysis of Miles and Huberman. The research subjects were determined through purposive sampling and obtained 4 subjects consisting of two intercultural pairs of Bugis and Bajo tribes in Rajuni Ki 'village in Selayar Regency. The results of the research obtained were the initiative of the women's family to carry out Ma'deceng, the men accepted the invitation, carried out the selection of spokespersons from each of the two families, fulfilled the conditions discussed from both families, and carried out Ma'deceng procession. In reviewing the theory of face negotiation, this process is in collectivist culture variables in reaching decisions together.